If you've thought about adding another pet to your household for Christmas, dismissing the idea because it isn't fair to the pet you have now, because you don't have room in your vehicle, because you're worried about how to do it correctly or for any number of other reasons, you might want to reconsider. Dogs are social pack animals and usually thrive on newfound animal friendship. The idea you have about dogs playing and, frankly, wearing each other out is right on the money. The other myth to dispel is that dogs and cats can not live together in peace. Of course they can. The following article will give you practical advice on how to properly introduce and socialize your new pet into your existing family. First things first.
Making sure your dog is canine social is a very important step. You can start slowly by taking your dog to visit a friend's dog. Make sure that as you introduce them, the leash is loose and that you are calm and relaxed. By holding a dog back, you can actually build up an anxious or aggressive response. If your dog passes this initial test, take him/her to an off-leash dog park, monitoring his/her reactions to other dogs' approach. When you've determined that your dog is friendly with other dogs, it's time to choose a pet that will be compatible. It is usually best to get a puppy when adding a dog to your home. The puppy will usually submit to the older dog and in this way, avoid confrontation. Puppies and, for that matter kittens, also don't easily give up if their first attempts at socializing don't succeed. Their happy-go-lucky attitudes can usually win over even the grumpiest of older dogs or cats. Make sure that the puppy you choose is also canine social and is easily handled by you and other members of your family. You'll also want to consider the newcomer's sex. A member of the opposite sex is generally more compatible, as long as both dogs have been spayed or neutered.
You'll need to be present when your newcomer is introduced into your home. On home territory, you can expect for the new guy to be a bit unpopular. Your dog may seem to be showing dominance or aggression, but in fact is just establishing hierarchy. Unless things get ugly, it's best not to intervene in any way. Dogs will almost always settle their differences peacefully because someone always backs down. The first meeting in your home should be in as neutral an area is possible, somewhere your dog doesn't spend a great deal of time. On the sidewalk in front of your home or in your driveway may be a good choice. Never let your new addition take over your dog's eating or sleeping area. You're just asking for trouble. Both dogs should be on leash at first, just to prevent any problems. Remember too not to lavish too much attention on the newcomer. Make sure that the attention, treats and other rewards you give are as equal as possible.
You may also want to consider a crate for the newcomer. It comes in handy for letting your dog catch a break from the exuberance of the new puppy. Also, pay close attention at feeding time. Make sure that both dogs are given their own bowl and don't allow stealing. Leaving food out all day is another no-no. You are setting up a situation for competition. Food should be on a schedule, usually twice a day for 20 minutes each time. Sharing toys is another consideration. If one particular object is going to become a point of contention it should simply be removed when the dogs are together. Rawhide bones and kongs filled with peanut butter should be watched carefully.
If a kitten is what you've chosen and there are other cats in the home, the best idea is to keep the kitten in a separate room at first. Your cat will certainly know the newcomer is present. But by separating them in the beginning, you allow your cat to become used to the smell of the new kid without being threatened in any way.
The most important thing is this: Adding a new pet into your household only adds to both your enjoyment and theirs...even if you don't have much room in the car!