We've all been there. "C'mon, Duke, let's take a bath! It'll be fun!" An hour later, you're wetter than he is and he's still a filthy mess. It doesn't have to be this way, of course. Bathing and grooming your dog can be a chance for you to bond and spend some quality time together.

As a rule, your dog only really needs a bath when you think he does. In other words, if he smells, wash him. The best approach is a well-planned one. Get your area ready before bringing in the dog. Set up clean towels and shampoo, taking the cap off. Use a shampoo specially formulated for dogs as they remove dirt but not the oils needed for your dog's coat. Talk to your veterinarian to get the best possible shampoo for your dog's coat. Next, put a supply of your dog's favorite treats in your pocket or on top of the counter. They should be no bigger than bite size so they can be consumed quickly. You can even use your dog's food. If you start when your dog is a puppy, you'll find it a much easier and faster learning process.

Begin by luring your dog to the bathroom door. Reinforce your dog for any willing activity. Again, try to make it pleasant. The first time will not be easy, but if you are consistent it will get easier over time. If he approaches calmly, say "Good!" and give a cookie. Back up a few steps into the bathroom. If he follows, "Good!" followed by a cookie. By getting into the tub yourself the first few times, you'll show your dog there's nothing to be afraid of . You've also now taught him that following you pays off. So, if he follows you into the tub (or even makes an attempt), praise. Help him into the tub if necessary and then turn the water on (just a trickle at first). If your dog has no reaction or approaches the water curiously, again praise him and give a cookie. If your dog reacts in fear, hold him calmly but give him no attention until he relaxes. Once he does relax, calmly praise your dog and continue on.

Turn the water up to the desired level and praise again. Hint: the calmer and more relaxed you remain, the calmer and more relaxed your dog will be.

At first, you might try using a cup for wetting your dog as opposed to a hose. The impact will not be as harsh. As you are pouring cupfuls of water over your dog's coat, you should be talking soothingly to him and petting his head gently.

You might also intermittently give a cookie. Remember, though, to only reinforce calm and relaxed behavior. If your dog tries to escape the tub, remain calm, but stop talking to or looking at him. Simply wait out the attempt, patiently holding your dog in place. When he relaxes (even slightly) "Good!" and cookie or petting. Continue this method of praise throughout the lathering and rinsing process. When finished, give your dog a "release" word. "Okay" or "Go" work well. That's his cue to exit the tub. Have your towel ready! We all know what wet dogs do and you don't want to be wiping water off of your walls. So make sure you're well-prepared and cover as much of the body as you can before they shake.

One more tip: Dogs usually have to urinate immediately following a bath. The heightened level of excitement is certainly a factor. So, let your dog outside (preferably on-leash with you, as to prevent the "rolling in the dirt" solution to his recent soaked state) to eliminate as soon as possible.